PTSD Patrol: Survivors take control of the road ahead

PTSD Patrol

Kathie Costos

August 3, 2020

"Linda is an extraordinary survivor" stated in the beginning of the article with this video. That is a point that everyone needs to remember. While the event tried to destroy you, it did not. You survived!

The question is, what do you do as a survivor? Do you let it change who you are inside? Then it continues to destroy you. Do you fight to take back your life as hard as you did to keep it during the event? If you do, then you win again!

What kind of a survivor do you want to be?

 

This is a clip from the DVD, Surviving Trauma and Tragedy: Lessons For Future Physicians and Mental Health. Linda is an extraordinary survivor of an abduction and sexual assault after grocery shopping for her family. She is speaking before the Class of 2007, College of Human Medicine, at MSU. She discusses the details of her personal traumatic events that led to her being diagnosed with PTSD. Linda, a member of the Michigan Victim's Alliance, and has a deep commitment to helping other survivors. Her story will help future health professionals realize how important doctors, nurses and members of the medical team can be in the diagnostic and recovery process for survivors of extreme trauma.

PTSD Patrol: only forces of light get you out of dark places

PTSD Patrol

Kathie Costos

August 2, 2020

"Why do some.....overcome?" That is the question Charles Hunt asks in this featured video today.

He is talking about how important it is to choose how we respond to things to what happens.

I could dwell on things I had to go through, but I choose to use them to help me understand other people. I use them to help me help them find hope that they can heal too.

Above all of that, I choose to not let anyone stop me because of what they decide to do with their own power.

Who are you letting stop you from becoming all you can be? Who are you letting get in your way instead of walking away from their negativity?

No one can control you but you!

When you help someone else it feels wonderful but when you need help and they walk away from you, it hurts 💔 Do not give forces of darkness power over you. Seek forces of light to get you out of the dark place you are in. #BreakTheSilence and #TakeBackYourLife from #PTSD

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PTSD Patrol: Breaking the silence “For me, it is #therapy in itself"

PTSD Patrol

Kathie Costos 

August 1, 2020

Of all the things we've talked about, there are a lot of people facing trauma that does not seem to end. 

COVID-19 pandemic is sweeping across this country, citizens are watching people they love with their lives on the line and spending weeks or months in hospitals, fighting for their lives when no one can go to be with them. Doctors and nurses are struggling to keep as many alive as possible, and begging for people to take this seriously enough so they do what they can to stop spreading it. 

Other jobs are done by those willing to subject themselves to trauma. And then there is domestic violence. 

We can understand that this level of trauma is far beyond what humans are designed to endure and that is when they need help to heal from it.

PTSD Patrol repeat highway in hell 

Of all the things we've covered we have not talked about repeatedly facing trauma that does not end. Domestic violence, trauma from your job, deployment in war or facing natural disaster recovery, are non-stop. You are up against things you need more help getting through. #BreakTheSilence and #TakeBackYourLife from #PTSD

Today's featured video is about a police officer who is doing what he can to encourage other officers to get help to heal too.

Detective Rob Davis' candid discussion about his journey as a #policeofficer who lives with #trauma and #PTSD are an invaluable contribution to the conversation surrounding mental health and public service.

From the Abington Police Department in Abington, PA, Rob uses his #recovery story to help other #officers who have similar symptoms. “I’m not a big public speaker. But in this case, I don’t mind sharing,” he says. “For me, it is #therapy in itself . . . To be able to tell somebody that it is possible to get through this. That’s the story that I want to share.”

PTSD Patrol: Survivor clings to anchor

PTSD Patrol 

Kathie Costos 

July 31, 2020 

Reminder, part of a series with inspirational videos on healing as a survivor

Today I'm putting up a great video about a survivor of a boating accident and if nothing else, learn that you can be happier than others who never experienced trauma. "What trauma taught me about happiness" Lindsey Roy TEDxKC is the video I am sharing today because as a survivor, I think she summed it up perfectly! #BreakTheSilence and #TakeBackYourLife from #PTSD

"Why are trauma survivors happier, on average, than lottery winners?" Lindsey Roy

"It is easier to be negative."

Why are trauma survivors happier, on average, than lottery winners? During her recovery from a devastating accident, Lindsey Roy developed ideas and ways of coping that suggest an answer to that question. Learn about her specific methods for overcoming the brain's natural negativity bias, letting go of past expectations, and connecting to a deeper self in the here and now. Lindsey Roy is a brilliant storyteller with a captivating story. A tragic boating accident while on vacation almost claimed Lindsey’s life and left her with an amputated left leg, severely injured right leg and injured right arm. Through a challenging recovery process, Lindsey learned impactful lessons on how to harness disruption and find clarity in the chaos.

 

PTSD Patrol Disturbing the Sound of Silence

PTSD Patrol

Kathie Costos

July 30, 2020 

I have come to disturb the silence that traps you.

I have come to break down the wall it built and free you.

I have come because others came to set me free. (Kathie Costos)

Disturb the water by casting a stone and cause ripples of healing! #BreakTheSilence and#TakeBackYourLife from #PTSD

"I alone cannot change the world, but I can cast a stone across the waters to create many ripples." -Mother Teresa 

Hello darkness, my old friend
I've come to talk with you again
Because a vision softly creeping
Left its seeds while I was sleeping
And the vision that was planted in my brain
Still remains
Within the sound of silence

In restless dreams I walked alone
Narrow streets of cobblestone
'Neath the halo of a street lamp
I turned my collar to the cold and damp
When my eyes were stabbed by the flash of a neon light
That split the night
And touched the sound of silence

And in the naked light I saw
Ten thousand people, maybe more
People talking without speaking
People hearing without listening
People writing songs that voices never share
And no one dared
Disturb the sound of silence

"Fools, " said I, "You do not know
Silence, like a cancer, grows
Hear my words that I might teach you
Take my arms that I might reach you"
But my words, like silent raindrops fell
And echoed in the wells, of silence

And the people bowed and prayed
To the neon god they made
And the sign flashed out its warning
In the words that it was forming
And the sign said, "The words of the prophets are written on the subway walls
And tenement halls"
And whispered in the sounds of silence

Source: LyricFind
Songwriters: Paul Simon
The Sound of Silence lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group